Qualities in a dating partner
We, the introverts, have heard so many people tell us that in order to be happy in a relationship we ought to be party-goers, wild, and getting back home after midnight.
But is it too much to ask for a nice night in, away from the world that can’t stop talking?
Having an outgoing partner is too much for an introvert to handle.
We understand that a wild partner needs to be out and about, but there is no future with such partner.
Hans Eysenck, German-born English psychologist, defined introverts by their baseline arousal.
It was apparent that introverts have high baseline arousal and need little social interaction to reach satisfaction.
Even couples in their honeymoon phase are expected to go out often and roam the city at night with their friends, hitting the bars every now and then.
Although there is nothing wrong with that, the thought of staying out for long hours in the company of a lot of drunken people is tiring for an introvert.
You don’t have to be a rocket scientist or a Picasso to be able to carry out a deep conversation with an introvert.
” When one tends to be alone most of the time, one develops a lot of hobbies.
An Introvert is someone who tends to have more hobbies that don’t necessarily have anything to do with socializing, (reading a book, jogging, having a marathon for the tenth time, baking.) Although it is not a requirement, when an introvert’s partner has some hobbies of their own, giving their introverted partner space becomes much easier.
that it is ideal for people to be loud, outgoing, and sociable.
this idea resonates with how we interact with others on a daily basis.
If anything, they don’t want you to stop texting them first, even though they won’t always respond. Read more books, watch documentaries or interesting movies, read more articles…because being an introvert means having a lot of in depth conversations instead of your shallow “Hello’s” and “How are you’s.” As mentioned before, introverts have a thicker prefrontal cortex, which means they think on a much deeper level.